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Small talk can be boring. The weather can be boring when we are stuck inside (like we were this winter). Some books and movies are boring. Staring at the walls is boring. Some phone conversations are boring. And looking at FB multiple times a day is super boring. Enter parlor games, some old school in different iterations, and some new ones, which have grabbed the attention of seniors everywhere and are more popular than Bad Bunny. There’s a good reason why we like games. Somewhere in our young adulthood, we put aside our card and board games. We were too...

  What if a gigantic pile of money landed in your lap from an inheritance, a lottery win, the sale of an expensive collection or a surge in the stock market, and you had to spend it only on yourself? Price tag: the sky’s the limit. What indulgence would you lavish on You, You, You?  Would you travel the world in style on private jets, first-class tickets, luxury yachts and stays at five-star resorts in exotic locations? What about a once-in-a-lifetime adventure, such as safaris in Africa, Antarctic expeditions or immersive culinary tours through Europe with famous celeb chefs? How about...

Spring is nature’s feel-good story, a celebration of life anew with abundant vigor, as all the colors in its palette blanket the terrain, ranging from different shades of green to an array of radiant hues.  The arrival of March last Sunday—and the official spring kickoff just two weeks away--also brings good news of brighter, warmer days for those of us not into cold weather and ice (fear of slipping or falling), early darkness, winter sports and staying indoors by a roaring fire or drinking hot toddies or cocoa with marshmallows to warm us up. We eagerly await the signs of...

NOTE: We’ve been a working duo for 38-plus years and were recently interviewed by another female duo—Maura and Christie--who’ve been working together for 10 years which includes co-hosting their The Balance Dilemma Podcast  Despite many asking us: Are you two still getting along? We are, as are our interviewers. Here’s our story from their FEB 20, 2026, recording.                                                             ### What Two 70-Something Writers Know About Collaboration, Reinvention, & Why Everything Gets Better After 50 For 38 years, Margaret Crane and Barbara Ballinger have been writing together through five children, one divorce, one widowhood, relocations, reinventions, and enough life plot twists to fill several...

We hear the terms opinionated and judgmental bandied about and wonder, what are the differences? You might say about a friend who typically doesn't like your movie or restaurant choices, “Oh, she’s so opinionated.” But then, when she rolls her eyes or tut-tuts at a young girl’s mini-mini skirt or multiple tattoo piercings, you think, “My goodness, she’s judgmental.”   Are these terms interchangeable? Is one better than the other, or are both put-downs? Where does this stem from? Does social media fuel these fires? We were eager to learn the differences between the behaviors, so we asked Baltimore psychologist...