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  Both of us recently made major moves—one across town in her adopted city and the other to a city about 300 miles away. We were both very excited about the possibility of a forever home in our later years, but we also knew we had much to learn. We were the new kids on the block.   Moving to or within a new city is often a blank canvas that permits anyone to craft a new life. But it takes work to adjust and feel settled in. Every move requires big changes, but most importantly, at our current older...

We are all voyeurs who enjoy a candid glimpse into the lives of famous writers, actors, chefs, authors, politicians, artists, musicians and more. That’s why we quickly turn to the Proustian-style questions featured on the back page of Vanity Fair and in the New York Times Book Review section. We hear directly from these famous folks as if we’re sitting next to them and having a one-on-one, meaningful conversation, drilling down to what they usually don’t reveal. Complete fluff? So what! These trivial offerings lighten our mood at a time when anxiety is at an all-time high. Anything that brings us...

Your computer won’t turn on. Don’t panic. Some people remain calm and try to figure out how to fix it. They’re the ones who understand technology. Most likely, they are young. And then there are those like us, more than 70 years old, who are easily flummoxed by anything digital, whether a computer, printer, complicated oven and the clock in our car. When anything goes wrong, we grunt; try to fix it. No luck. That’s when we curse, we might shriek or, if we have a partner or roommate, we call them to help. Many try but don’t succeed. They’re...

Fess up seniors. Technology is not always the enemy; sometimes, it is our friend. At least once a day when we’re having an issue with it, we might declare, “I can’t stand technology!” Not so fast. Today technology can save your life. Try to embrace it. With advances and apps, technology can serve as a lifeline. It’s like always having a medical professional with you to monitor your wellness. How cool—and healthy--is that! For example, Smartphones and smartwatches centralize the management of your physical, mental and emotional well-being. There is ECG monitoring, fall detection and irregular heart rhythm warnings. There...

This is the third in our series of buddy blogs. We’ve shared the wisdom of having a health and a confidence buddy. Two separate friends or family members: one to share our health concerns and go to certain doctor appointments with us or listen as we undergo tests, wait for results and maybe begin treatments, and another person whom we know we can trust to confide in and not breathe a word of our problems or deepest secrets to anyone else, even though the world seems to be one of massive sharing. Now we are weighing in on the advantage...