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It was a freezing January morning when I walked up to the school that my late husband had attended six decades ago. I rang the bell to get in and signed a sheet in the office.  “J’s classroom is down the hall and to the left,” said the school secretary pointing to the right. I ambled down the hall checking the numbers on the doors. I found J’s room and entered. The teacher – a tall bespectacled woman in her 50s –shook my hand and pointed out the child I was to tutor. “He’s a lovely boy,” she said. “J...

Winter has arrived and when the going gets cold, those who are cold look for ways to warm up. There are multiple techniques including creative cocooning and doubling down with a good comforter, cuffing with crablike tenacity, using apps on your iPhone to warm your hands, buying space heaters to warm rooms you’re in–and then our absolute favorite, ingesting comfort foods and drinks. Without a doubt, the extra warmth of a shot of aged brandy or a hot toddy causes a surge of happiness in our hearts when we pick up our glasses to toast. Or cut to the schmaltz...

Have yourself a “Merry little Christmas” or a “Happy Hanukkah.” It’s that wonderful time of year when holiday music junkies take note! You can get in the holiday spirit while listening to “Jingle Bells” or “Dreidel, Dreidel, Dreidel” and other iconic holiday songs or sing them—gathering family and friends, bundling up and heading out into the brisk winter night armed with your voice to do some caroling. And to further fuel the holiday fires, there will be parties for hosting and marshmallows for toasting, according to crooner Andy Williams, and candy canes…aglow, if you add in Bing Crosby’s Christmas ditty....

We all have regrets. Perhaps not marrying your college sweetheart, bungee jumping when you were young and agile, traveling around the world before settling down to a 9 to 5 job and raising children, or going up in a small plane so you feel like you’re almost flying it. One of my biggest regrets was never mastering those train word problems in algebra class that pop up regularly in Marilyn vos Savant’s “Ask Marilyn?” column in Parade Magazine. When I see them, my eyes and brain glaze over.  I could blame my lapse on Teen Talk Barbie, who pronounced to girls...

It’s nearly holiday time and the ritual of gift giving rises to the occasion like a freshly baked bread. The clichés about giving abound: It’s better to give than to receive. You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving. So when we’re celebrating any milestone or holiday, it might be prudent to fall back on the messages embedded in these truisms to be more benevolent and creative in our gift giving. Fortunately, we have picked up...