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Steel yourselves. The gale force of the holidays is building to hurricane status, which doesn’t just hit on Thanksgiving but days ahead and afterward. For many, Thanksgiving is a favorite holiday. It’s a time to gather, rejoice and be thankful for all we have. Amen. But at the same time, the holiday may trigger other responses— dread, anxiety and CHAOS! Your mind might begin to wonder and worry. Can you handle all the shopping over multiple days, prep and cook so that everything has its proper time in the oven, set the table, figure out who sits next to whom...

We tend to be consumed with our habits. Some are nervous ones such as biting nails or twirling hair strands. Bad habits. Flossing teeth twice every day because you cannot stand the feel of food between your teeth and because it stops plaque from building up helps keep the dentist at bay. Healthy habit. With Thanksgiving coming up, overeating is a holiday habit that can make you sick and lead to other health issues. Nauseating habit.  Any addiction to alcohol, drugs, tobacco, even carbs and sugar. Dangerous, seriously bad habits. A habit is not a routine. How do they differ?...

We’re not contrarians but at times it’s good to look on the bright side. Take regrets, defined as disappointments over something that happened or has been done, maybe recently or long ago. Some regrets we could have controlled and others we could not. But in any regretful situation, there can be a silver lining if we learn from these less than happy situations. Who doesn’t have regrets? We think nobody if we’re being honest. Unlike today when it’s so much easier to leave a paper and voice trail, people risk the possibility of more regrets if they don’t think before...

Young people today try to achieve a healthier work-life balance than the older generations did. Margaret’s younger son says it all the time, “All you and dad seemed to do was work and worry about us (the kids).” Our generation wants to also enjoy the journey of life—have time to be with friends and family, travel, exercise, pursue hobbies and give back. That’s just not the way we were when we were brought up. We are part of the cohort that strived to pursue both, and mostly only, family and work.  Oh, we tried to heed the concept of having...

At some point in our lives, you may have thought, “I wish our lives could be a series of hilarious comedy moments.” We’d find the humor in our daily activities, which the cartoonist Roz Chast does in her work. Laughter is healthy, for as the saying goes, it’s the best medicine in today’s grim world, especially with the horrendous situation in the Mideast. A good belly laugh would get us over a bad hair day, mean boss, rude drivers and snippy clerks. We’d live longer if we could laugh to our graves. Freud posited that humor may be the highest...